Dear Pema
Personally my preference is to uphold this thread in the spirit and gratitude it started and continued in.
But I guess as a Buddhist, we all have to understand that impermanence is a defining feature. Thankyou for showing us this reality again.
So allow me to respond ( briefly is not my forte unfortunately ):
I cannot speak for others; I oft read the threads of the 'past' so to speak - there are gems there and there are indepth Buddhism discussions by the members. They are good, enjoyable, informative and I like to peruse those when I am so inspired (and of clear mind because I need to concentrate much lol)
Those still occur, though perhaps not in the same depth and breadth you 'like'. I, as a newbie, know that there are many like me - we come, have little or no knowledge/experience in the Buddhist ways and teachings, but we are curious, we are in pain, we seek knowledge, we are inspired, we are taking one step at a time, we find this Sangha, we become part of it..
And, yes many people here post asking for 'help' - self help. Suffering from the effects of samsara, attachment, unaware of the teachings of Buddha.
And so it is how I started here: deep in the pain of my samsara - within my own delusions and tools/habits that did not work for me, I started here asking complete Oprah questions! As impermanence goes, I slowly look forward.
And what did I encounter? I encountered warmth, compassion, understanding, responsiveness, wisdom. I encountered a way and people that I find inspiring, with no pressure, no discrimination. I learnt about the Four Noble Truths, and read about the Eightfold Path. I learn about Buddhism, and the teachings. I am inspired. I feel like it is a breath of fresh air - as if it is all I have known all my life - just that I did not know.
Without inspiration and that first 'taste' of this Buddhist road though, how will others follow?
Who are the teachers of tomorrow?
So I am thankful that there are the kind folk here who answered my initial 'complete ego' - 'self help' - 'self absorbed' - 'egotistical' - 'Oprah' questions. The warmth and acceptance opened me up in other ways. I am still not free from my old ways. It is not easy IMO for people at my level to strip away, and engage in deep Buddhist discussions.
However, I ask that you are patient with us "lower" or more immature in the path as you 'may' be, or may perceive to be. I ask that you display compassion for those of us whom are only learning, who - still suffering from deep illusions/delusions, cannot simply 'throw off the old, and put on the new'. I ask that you consider this in your own journey, of course it is your own, and this is only my own opinion.
But I certainly consider this a Buddhist forum: there are philosophy sections, sections to assist and support others, sections for differing 'levels' of audience: but a forum run with compassion, support, selflessness, teaching and one point on the road for those of us still looking ahead on where to go. For some the road ahead may lead to Buddhism, and further still for others who will find Buddhism and self irrelevant, others may come and go once their pain subsides. Who am I to judge another's path? I can only walk my own and find what I need within this forum - according to whom "my ego" is at the moment.
And of course, pro-activeness is a (wordly) looked upon trait - please by all means, generate the 'deeper' discussions that you long for - there are still much wiser and knowledgeable persons who engage here and can/like to contribute in these areas - Dave, our Moderators, Bill etc etc. Please point out where this is "misinformation" regarding dharma. I for one would welcome such wisdom and knowledge for each of us to experience ourselves.
Start the party - I'll be watching!
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Teyes, Moderators, Fellow Members and All That Come Across Here: Thankyou for this site, and this Sangha. It has allowed me to understand and encounter Buddhism, Buddhist folk, and as a
source of Guidance and Inspiration for me, that I am thankful for.
Blessings and Good Will to All.